Desiring Beyond Limits – Unlocking the Creative Force Within

Desire isn’t just a wish—it’s a source of energy.

According to Igor Sibaldi, wanting activates a part of our psyche that exists beyond time and space, giving us access to something much greater than logic or willpower: our creative intelligence.
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Here’s the key insight: the opposite of desiring is not apathy—it’s considering.

When we “consider,” we evaluate the options already on the table.

​But when we desire, we step outside those boundaries and ask for something new, wild, and real. We bypass what’s “available” and express what we want—even if it seems impossible.

Desiring is not about choosing between options. It’s about creating new ones.

Sibaldi compares this to being in a supermarket and asking for a zebra. It might sound ridiculous—but it’s a perfect metaphor. The supermarket represents your current reality. Desire asks you to go beyond it.

Wanting, like hunger or thirst, is not something we control. It arises spontaneously, often multiple times a day. Most of the time, we respond unconsciously:

When the WANT says: “Where are we going?”
YOU probably answer: “Nowhere special.”
And if the WANT ask again: “What are we doing?”
YOU say again: “Same as always.”

But what if, instead, you had a list ready of what you actually want? What if you could say, “We’re going somewhere I’ve dreamed of for years,” or “We’re creating something new today.”

That’s the power of expressing your desires.

Desires are never random. They arise from your soul, pointing to paths already opening for you. When you engage with them—write them, name them, refine them—you begin to co-create with life. You move from reacting to reality to shaping it.

So, start your list. Follow the rules. Don’t worry if it takes a year. You’ll grow with each step. You’ll learn who you are by daring to ask for more.
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Because what you want is already looking for you.