One of the main cause of crisis in a relationship is the challenges brought about by the birth of children.
In essence parents get a second full time job on top of the one they already have and no instruction whatsoever on how to go about being a good parent.
I have been there and I have seen many others go through that with pain, sense of failure and frustration.
Raising your children should be a love quest, a great adventure full of learning moment. Having a child with the one you love should be a coronation of that love, not the end of it.
I came across this video today that seems to answer in short some of the fundamental questions about what is really important to give to children as we raise them.
I resonate with what Gabor Mate says and for this reason I share it here hoping it will reach more people that can be inspired and supported by this message.