The concealed  bond that links us with our family of origin has an unsuspected influence on our life.

The unconscious loyalties we have with our family are too often toxic and we end up taking on us the destiny and the emotional baggage of our ancestor.
And then we have problems in relationships, in work, health that we struggle to solve.
This is the main concept behind the systemic theory and its application: family constellations. 
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The toxic loyalties that we have towards our family are a form of love that is as unconditional as unaware. It's healthy alternative would be aware love: this is the kind of love that stems out honoring ourselves and our happiness.