Fear is the opposite of love. This means that when our actions and our words are driven from fear they don’t come from the heart.
That’s a pity, really, because when we can speak from the heart we often don’t have conflict.
Conflict are originated far too often from communication driven by fear, unconscious, invisible fear, that our needs will not being met.
Fear however keeps us adrift from our heart, there where the solution is.
Assuming you already know:
1- what your unfulfilled need is within the conflict and
2- what you are exactly afraid of:
How do you communicate differently when you are in contact with your heart?
When you feel and believe that your need are met and always will. When you are in tune with your spiritual dimension and can see things from a broader optimistic perspective.
Would you like to read more about conflicts and how to solve them? Download the checklist 'Conflict to Avoid'